The world
is full of different people and let’s be thankful that this
is so. A variety in all forms of existence insures that life will
continue to flourish on this planet (as long as we don’t
blow it up, that is). Within each species there exists further
variety. This is also a good thing. Just imagine if everyone in
the world was exactly the same as that annoying bully you knew
in elementary school. Diversity in human life means that for every
bully in the world, there will also be an Aunt Dorothy (the one
who used to give you candy when your parents weren’t looking)
or that best friend who helped you get through those major life
emergencies. With such variety, it is natural to assume that there
will also be a multitude of thought and expression in the world.
This is certainly true of religion. But, the world does not exhibit
a variety of individual religions. Instead, we have bodies of
religious traditions.
The variety of the world’s religions are examples of the
common theological struggles of people filtered through the lens
of a specific culture. That is why people that are born in a Christian
culture tend to be Christian. That is also why there are a number
of religions among the peoples of this planet. Unfortunately,
people tend to believe that their way of thinking is the only
correct way. Many of the struggles of mankind have come from the
belief that one particular religion is more right than another.
If we come to recognize that each religion has its own validity
but not the right to dominate others, we develop religious tolerance.
Tolerance and compassion are the two great pillars of peace.
Paganism
recognizes that spiritual people believe and practice in their
own unique ways. Within the grand umbrella of Paganism there are
a variety of practices and traditions. These are explored in many
great existing texts and the purpose of this article is not to
try and identify them. Instead, I would like to look at the variety
of personalities I have observed in Pagan gatherings and classes.
In my experience, our open and unique spiritual pursuits attract
particular types of people. In understanding the uniqueness of
these personalities, I hope we can appreciate their differences
in how they may approach their studies and practices and that
we can gain a sense of tolerance for these differences. To aid
in understanding these distinctions, I am referring to these personality
traits in relation to ancient Greek philosophers. These philosophers,
after all, are some of the greatest ancient Pagan thinkers and
much of our modern practice has been modeled after their teachings.
I have chosen eight different philosophers whose schools of thought
can be used to represent personality traits of many modern Pagans.
This is not to say that all Pagans fit into only one of these
eight categories. This would be too simplistic and misguided.
However, many Pagans do have some of the characteristics I shall
describe. If we can recognize that there are those among us who
approach their spiritual pursuits in a very different manner than
our own, we can begin to learn to work together. There are many
who may display combinations of these eight types. Understanding
which types and to what degree we relate to these can help us
work with others. So, let’s take a look at these eight types.
See if you recognize anyone you know in these examples and see
which ones correspond to you.
The
Skeptical Pagan
The philosophical school of Skepticism was begun by Pyrrho. The
Skeptics argued that believing in a philosophy, any philosophy
at all was ludicrous. They claimed that philosophy was unnecessary
to living fully. Thus, they shunned all previous theory and chose,
instead, to live a good life through action. These Pagans, then,
are the practical and active Pagans. They choose to focus on ritual
rather than philosophy. For them, practicing Paganism is more
important than discussing it. For many of us, the road to Paganism
began with skepticism. For those brought up in a different religion,
especially religions that taught that it is not right to ask questions
about faith, we rebelled by asking those questions. Finding those
answers led us to break away from those religions and turn to
alternatives such as Paganism. Modern Paganism is a haven for
Skeptics because questioning and personal understanding is a major
foundation of our practices. Pagan Skeptics, however, continue
to shun any philosophical idea or practice that is not personally
engaging. They tend to avoid any real personal spiritual theology
nor do they desire one. Instead, they prefer to live their lives
without the distraction of theory.
The Eristic Pagan
Often Skeptic Pagans develop into the Erisitc Pagans. Eristicism
was a school developed by Euclides who learned and refined the
art of argumentation as a philosophical practice. The word argument
often has a negative connotation but this is not the case here.
To be engaged in a truly philosophical argument means to discuss
particular sides of a principle. In other words, it means to debate.
All Greek philosophers loved to have a debate but the Eristics
tended to be even more, shall we say, “in-your-face”
kind of debaters. They believed that all points of view were subject
to debate and that no statement of principle should ever go without
question. The Eristic Pagan particular enjoys the act of debate
and will attempt to encourage others to engage in one at most
any time. Unlike the Skeptic who simply chooses not to accept
all that is offered, the Eristic wants you to know exactly why
one believes as one does. The Eristic tends have a more firm view
of personal belief and once, developed, they tend to grasp onto
that belief tightly. The Eristic can turn into a fundamentalist
if she begins to believe that her way of thinking is more right
than someone else’s. Believing strongly in an idea does
not require one to devalue the belief of another. The tolerant
Eristic does not deride others for believe but does want them
to be able to adequately defend those beliefs in healthy and lively
discussions.
The Cynical Pagan
Similar to the Skeptical Pagan is the Cynical Pagan. Though the
Skeptic prefers not to cling to any one particular theology, the
Cynic is truly in search of answers but insists that all answers
be personally questioned and experienced. Pure faith is not enough.
The Cynic wants and pursues the pure truth and is not satisfied
until she finds it. Like the Skeptic, she questions everything.
The difference is that the Skeptic desires no answer while the
Cynic is truly searching. Carried to an extreme, this pursuit
can lead one to become disillusioned with all thoughts and opinions.
Seeking the pure truth may become so frustrating to the Cynic
that she ends up simply finding fault in everyone and everything.
In order to overcome this frustration, one has to decide how much
of eternal truth can actually be made known to mortals and be
willing to accept the outcome of that decision. Good natured Pagan
Cynics continue to question and be unwilling to accept ideas purely
on faith but must become content with the answers that feel right
to them. The long sought kernels of truth that are finally accepted
must be those that are right for the individual. In the end, the
Cynic may need to cease the pursuit of truth through questions
and engage in rituals that reveal truths through the senses.
The Mystical Pagan
Pythagorus is one of the best known of the Pre-Socratic Greek
philosophers and his teachings developed into one of the most
popular schools of Greek thought. The reason may be because he
advocated the use of both reason and mysticism in his philosophy.
Pythagoreans knew no separation between science and religion.
His school studied the mystical meanings of numbers and explored
how mathematical principles could reveal universal and cosmic
truths. This thirst for knowledge of the mysteries of the universe
and the belief that we can personally identify with them are some
of the traits of the Mystic Pagan. Pythagorus believed that the
purpose of the soul was to find its way back to the divine. Through
the study and practice of mystical truths, one can come to understand
universal principles. When one knows the mind of the gods, they
might reason, one can become a god. Mystic Pagans love to study
occult and mystical topics and have no problem with the principle
of faith. They are avid readers and love to share what they have
learned with others who will listen. They tend to practice magick
but, more often than not, they usually end up practicing “low”
magick or magick which does not require a lot of tools and formulations.
They prefer the quiet solemn ritual to the loud boisterous type.
The Hedonistic Pagan
In contrast to the Mystical Pagan is the Hedonistic Pagan. It
has been said that teenage boys become Pagans so that they can
go to rituals where girls get naked and dance around while young
teenage girls become Pagans so that they can learn spells that
will get them boyfriends who are not like the boys that come to
the rituals. When we think of Hedonism (one of whose advocates
was the Greek philosopher Epicurius), we think of those young
bucks in the ritual who seek the forbidden fruits of life. Strictly
speaking, hedonism is not unbridled lust. Hedonists believe that
the purpose of life is to seek pleasure and avoid pain. As long
as no harm is caused, the seeking of pleasures is not a bad thing,
they argue. Obviously , this is a philosophy which goes against
the messages of our traditionally Puritan society. Hedonistic
Pagans do, indeed, seek pleasure. Consensual sex, dancing, singing,
drinking and being full of merriment are all examples of worldly
pleasures which the Hedonist says we should not avoid in pursuit
of a nonexistent higher purpose. They would shout to the world,
“We are here to experience life in its fullest!” This
is not to say that Hedonistic Pagans are not ethical. Epicurius
himself said that the greatest pleasures were those that last
the longest. Pursuit of immediate gratification was secondary
to long term happiness. Sometimes, he would explain, it is necessary
to deny oneself an immediate pleasure if it interfered with the
greater happiness. So, as long as there were no negative long
term consequences, the Hedonistic would exclaim: eat, drink, and
be merry!
The Stoic Pagan
Standing on the side watching the Hedonists dance the night away
are the Stoic Pagans. The Greek Philosopher Zeno developed a philosophy
that demanded a high moral character. Ethics and a modern sense
of chivalry guide the Stoics in their quest for truth and right.
These are the folks that would never miss a Renaissance Festival
even it was held in the midst of a raging storm. For the Ren Fest
exemplifies a time of grandeur, heroism, and a sense of duty and
honor that the Stoic craves. The Stoics tend to be a quiet and
serious lot but they can be depended on for most anything. (Anything
that does not go against their high principles, that is.) The
Stoics live for that moment, however small, when they can save
the day. They are the priestly knights who ride in on their mighty
steeds. For this reason, they love to help others - especially
through divination and healing. This is not to say that all Stoics
are classic sourpusses. Deep inside they may have a strong sense
of fun and frolic. It’s just that they wait for the proper
time and occasion to let themselves be open in frivolous.
The Socratic Pagan
Before the philosopher Socrates was considered the great genius
he is today, his home town of Athens considered him a troublemaker.
He taught against the conventional wisdom of the day. Because
he questioned the logic of worshipping gods whose actions he felt
were no better than the mortals around him, Socrates was eventually
condemned to death. This sense of defiance and loss of identity
with the community defines the Socratic Pagan. This Pagan is the
one who has trouble finding acceptance in the standard world of
conformity. In Paganism, we are (hopefully) accepting of those
who feel this way. Whether from looks, economic background, philosophical
viewpoint, manner of speech, or any other number of factors, our
society has an unwritten code of standards. Those who do not meet
this code are often shunned. These social misfits can become lost
in the system and turn to a variety of negative ways of acting
out the frustration associated with such ostracization. Turning
to an alternative religions can be a positive step in finding
acceptance among others. The Socratic Pagan is not only different,
she also has a strong desire to learn and grow. When one learns
that a path such as those offered through Paganism is available,
one can begin to regain a sense of self worth and respect. Paganism
honors the unique contribution of each of its adherents regardless
of their sense of convention. A spiritual practice outside the
norm must do so. We welcome the social outcast and their strange
and wonderful ideas.
The Aristotelian Pagan
One of Plato’s (a student of Socrates) greatest students
was Aristotle. A primary drive for Aristotle was his desire to
categorize things into their proper classifications. An Aristotelian
Pagan exhibits the same desire. They enjoy headings and subheadings
and like to know how things fit into the greater puzzle. They
tend to search for a tradition that suits them and then stick
to it. You might say they are the purists in the family. They
do not believe that people should mix and match their religious
concepts. Tradition is very important to them. They may be more
resistant to change but can be convinced if they can see the purpose
of the change within the big picture. Though they may be appear
defiant in a group, it must be remembered that every Pagan group
should have at least one Aristotelian among them. They are often
the anchors in an often aimlessly drifting vessel. They remind
us to slow down and consider what we do before moving on too quickly.
They are there to remind us of our roots and our original purpose.
They are the stalwart ones who may help to hold us together.
Actually, we need all these types of personalities in our groups.
Each one provides an important function and role. Each one has
a unique history and perspective to share all of which are important
and which need to be heard. Having a room full of Cynical Pagans
would probably not be very effective without some other personalities
included as well.
By now, you will have recognized the Aristotelian futility of
this entire exercise. I have tempted to put people into unique
categories and any attempt to do such a thing is doomed to failure.
No one fits neatly into any one of these character descriptions
and most will have characteristics of several of them. I believe
there is some benefit to recognizing these traits in others, however.
By becoming aware of these personality quirks and the reasons
behind their existence, we can come to learn to work together.
Recognizing our differences helps us to clear the way to find
common ground. We cannot walk together on separate roads. Leaders
of Pagan groups need to recognize the unique gifts of each member
and learn to teach the group to respect these differences.